As a person who has chosen pollical independence at the cost of having a real choice in primary elections, I wish I had an answer, rather than this cop-out article that offers no resolution.
The biggest fear is for a team to pick a player who turns out to be a bust when another player who turns out to be a boon was still in the pool.
It would be best if you always were cordial and friendly with your coworkers, and you can make friends with the people you see daily at work. But the blanket statement is always at play when it comes to any possible office-related issues. Your coworkers are not your friends.
Life is not all that complicated. It is as simple as following a path of simple action.
My daughter JJ has severe problems with the unknown. Like how she can survive if we send her to bed with 7 minutes left of an episode of whatever random show she is watching.